New Years Directions - Step #2 - Avoiding The Mind War

Posted on Monday 18 February 2008

Our language creates imagery in our mind’s eye. The way you state your New-Years resolutions  will determine  how much of an internal struggle you create inside your head. The following 10min video will show you how to re-state your resolutions so you avoid bombarding your mind with resolutions that will create a mental war.

 

How often do your hear yourself saying? - “No I haven’t done it Yet, I’ve been meaning to…”
Free report Reveals:

  • 10-second focus technique
  • The Ultimate Productivity Formula
  • 4 words that are crushing your efficiency
  • Simple Tricks to eliminate overwhelm and skyrocket productivity
  • Crush your critical voice in 2 steps

Grab It Now! Click Below…
http://www.gettingthingsdonenow.com/MindReport

Stephan @ 10:28 am
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New Years Direction - Step #1 Creating Balance

Posted on Wednesday 30 January 2008

One of the major problems with the way people set New-Years resolutions is they don’t set them in a balanced way. This causes mental confusion and internal conflict mostly because your mind knows that when you put to much focus on one area, you begin to neglect another important area. The following 6 Minute video explains how to begin to get back control and balance when you set your New Years directions.

 

 

How often do your hear yourself saying? - “No I haven’t done it Yet, I’ve been meaning to…”
Free report Reveals:

  • 10-second focus technique
  • The Ultimate Productivity Formula
  • 4 words that are crushing your efficiency
  • Simple Tricks to eliminate overwhelm and skyrocket productivity
  • Crush your critical voice in 2 steps

Grab It Now! Click Below…
http://www.gettingthingsdonenow.com/MindReport

Stephan @ 10:38 pm
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Get A "New Years Direction!!!"

Posted on Monday 14 January 2008

In The Following Video Mini-Course, Stephan Stavrakis Explains How To Get  A New Years Direction!

Forget everything you know about Setting New Years Resolutions!! Start the new year with proper Directions.
Keep coming back every day, for a new video tip on how to make 2008 the most productive and profitable year ever! 

                       

Stephan @ 1:17 pm
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All Accomplishments Are A Good Start!

Posted on Monday 24 September 2007

 

So I started on the 31st of August, with the goal of working out every day, and eating well. Many of you have emailed and asked me how it’s going? Well here is the total So far, as of this morning.

I’m down 13lbs. You got it! I started at 214 and I’m at 200lbs and sometimes going to 198.( I guess it has something to do with water weight)

So I’m so excited, and proud that I got this far.. Hopefully those of you that are doing this with me are still going. I know it’s hard work, I know some of you have already stopped, but It doesn’t matter. Use this post to keep going. Ultimately there is no destination, it’s about the journey. You’ll get ups, downs and deviations from the path but you will succeed if your proceed! I’m at the point now that I can’t imagine a day going by without doing at least 45 minutes of intense workouts. It’s an amazing place to be… But I haven’t arrived, I’m still at it, and the 13lbs, is a good start. Not easy, but very rewarding!!

 

love you all

Stephan

 

P.S.

I have a picture for you guyz to see I’ll post it tonight and you can see for yourself!

Stephan @ 11:39 am
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Pleasantly "Intrusive" Visual reminders!

Posted on Friday 14 September 2007

  NeverEverGiveUp I just love this image, it’s the image that is hanging on the wall beside my desk, next to my favorite quote.

" When you are inspired by some great purpose,
some extraordinary project,
all of your thoughts break their bonds
Your mind transcends limitations.
Your consciousness expands in every direction.
And you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world.
Dormant forces, faculties and talents come alive
and you discover yourself to be a greater person
by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be"

- Pantanjali

Sometimes when we are down, things aren’t going are way, and we aren’t achieving things that we expect. Our mind tends to activate our negative feelings. The feelings can be "Doubt, Sadness, Anxiety, Overwhelm etc. This happens to everyone, if you say it doesn’t happen to you you’re lying to yourself, or you’re in what I call ignorant bliss!(Not a bad place to be actually) For those of us that aren’t lucky enough to be in ignorant bliss, we need reminders that get us recharged and rejuvenated again.

I’m sure you have heard that putting up visual motivational reminders to keep you on-trac. The problem with putting up visual reminders is that after a while, our brain generalizes them into our perception and in a short time we "FORGET" they are there. It’s almost like our motivational, inspirational messages have become "VISUAL WHITE NOISE," they get lost in our perception.

The solution?

Simple! Make sure that you’re visual motivational reminders are "pleasantly intrusive".

Her are some examples:

Put them on a bright PINK piece of paper.
Put them on a sticky note right ON your computer screen so you have to move it to work.
Put them on your car steering wheel
Put them on the back of the door that you always open on.
This might be weird, but put one IN your fridge. (That’s right, as weird as it sounds…) If you put it in your fridge, it’s intrusive enough, so it will remind you to look at it.

The point?

Make sure you visual reminders for motivation, inspiration or whatever are in a place that is visually intrusive, "Somewhere where it will "pleasantly" intrude in your field of vision. This way you’ll always have in your mind important messages that mean something to you, and cause you to get motivated, refocused and drive you to your goals faster and with more power!

Try that

Tell me your comments

Warmly,

Stephan

Stephan @ 9:45 am
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Day 13: The Concept of the Utopian Mind

Posted on Thursday 13 September 2007

Well It appears that on Tuesday night I slept with my pillow just under my right ear. I guess that I bent my neck in a perfect way to get a nasty kink in it by morning. Wednesday morning my head was killing me! As a matter of fact it was so bad I couldn’t even open my eyes. This pain lasted pretty much all day. So guess what, it was a great opportunity for me to slack off and not workout.

6:45 I wake up and as soon as my head lifted from the pillow, AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHh……….. The instant that happened to me yesterday, it was there was an avalanche of excuses that came to my brain.

  1. Oh you’ve been working yourself to hard
  2. Maybe it’s a tumor
  3. You should not workout today
  4. Ooooooouchh…..

You get the point. I noticed something interesting, under all that mind chatter, there is another "notion" like, another "voice" that seemed more real, gentle, loving, caring, understanding. Although the voice doesn’t overpower the excuses in your mind, it is apparent this was a part of you, and I. This part of you said, today "Take it easier…".

I don’t know about you, but regardless if you’re talking health, fitness, finances, balance or whatever It’s as if there is always inside your head that’s watching over you. The problem with most people, this part of them is "Soft -Spoken" not as vocal. So then the "mental garbage" overpowers that part.

So I decided to listen to the soft spoken part of me, the part that says ‘ Take it easier today’ and instead of of 1.5 hours of intense power workout, do 30 to 40 minutes of what you can.

So I did, and guess what, it was tough, I don’t know if you’ve ever forced yourself, to do something through pain but it isn’t easy. I noticed around the 15th minute I started feel a little better, even though my head was pounding I focused on the fact that I made a commitment to myself, and honored that commitment.  The increased confidence that came from going through that experience was amazing!

Listen, you and I both know stuff happens, ‘Life get’s in the way, when you’re making other plans" it’s not our job to feel bad, fight it and wage an internal struggle. Negotiation and peace is the way to go. If you can negotiate a peaceful resolution in your mind, you’re one step closer to creating a utopian mind!

Talk to you l8ter

 

Stephan

P.S.

For those of you that are interested in this mind stuff, I have something amazing that I’ve been working on all summer, Hopefully you’ll love it, as much as I did putting it together!

Stephan @ 9:55 am
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Day 11 - And I feel like a million bucks!!!

Posted on Tuesday 11 September 2007

Wow can’t believe that 5 days have gone by since my last post! Thanks to Suzanne for keeping my on "Posting Toes!"

 

OMG(Oh My God!) - I can’t believe it! It’s been 11 days with 1 cheat day, and I’m still at it! I guess I’m really committed this time!!!

My wife and kids have been chomping away at Mickey D’s, fries, burgers, shakes etc. Not one craving, actually my mind has been saying YUCK every time I see something that I know is bad for me. Did I program it that way? Probably. Recently I talked to one of my clients (You know who you are! I’m so proud of you! Keep up the good work) and I said, that the best way to eliminate cravings, and unhealthy desires is to say YUCK YUCK YUCK… Progressively louder, and more intense every time your mind tells you to cheat.  This is "Yuck" technique is not really a technique at all. It’s actually what your brain does when you TRULY don’t like something. If I said… How about we eat that big bowl of worms over there… Your brain would go yuck!! I don’t think so… If you do the same with all the cravings you have you’ll notice that you’re training your mind to dislike that which you crave.

So my workout routine has been changing pretty much every day. One day it’s pure "Kick you in the butt" cardio, then it’s Yoga, then it’s Kenpo Karate, then I look at my BowFlex and say… "Your ASS is MINE!" and do 30 exercises in 45 minutes. I started with being able to do 2 push-ups I’m now at 35. I started with not being able to do even 1 pull up and now I do about 6. (Not Great! but an improvement) My body hurts, but I’m loving every minute of it.

I think it’s important to note: Even if you fell off the wagon a little bit or a lot, use this post as your re-energizer and kick it back into Gear. I’m doing it, and YES, I have days that my brain trys to take me out, but I just:

How I handle it when my brain tries to take me out!

Recognize: My brain is saying oh you don’t need to workout today, You did enough in the past 11 days.

Calm It: I don’t talk back to it, I don’t justify it. I don’t say anything.. I just clear my mind … And focus on clearing it for 3 minutes. Think about images of strength like powerful waves smashing onto rocks. Or What it will feel like to finally have upper body strength.

Do(something) as you calm your mind: So As my brain starts to think about the images of strength, I’m putting on my workout clothes, getting my mp3 player ready, and walking to my workout room.

Before I  know it, I’m on the X-Trainer doing my 10 minute warm up. And then I’m off and running!(Literally and figuratively!)

I don’t care if you’ve cheated stopped or got off track all together, get back in the saddle today!

Remember, the time is now..

I believe in you.

Thanks

Stephan

P.S. Tonight’s post is on more mind tricks!!

 

Oh Good Food Trick:

1 Tbs: Horshradish Mustard

1 Can: Tuna Fish

1 Tortilla Wrap:

2 Tbs: Brown Rice

1 Slice: NO-Fat Swiss Cheese

Great Lunch, only about 250 Calories.

I ate 2 today tastes amazing and fills you right up. I’ve replaced all the sauces With horshrasish mustard and everything I eat actually has good taste. Note: if you don’t like Horshradish Mustard then you No-Fat Mayo.(Doesn’t have enough Kick for me though)

Stephan @ 12:44 pm
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Day 5 Going Strong!!!

Posted on Tuesday 4 September 2007

Okey dokey, Day 5 and going strong,

Note: I decided to add another category on the right, to talk about this it’s called “Me Project”
Because I want the main forum to be the Mind Stuff.

Now I know why people that workout consistently remember to workout the next day!
Because they can feel their muscles, all day long!! What a great reminder to workout the next day!! OH MY GOD!!! MY BODY HURTS!!!

You guyz I hope you’re still with me, just because I missed a couple of days of posting doesn’t mean that I’ve stopped.. No WAY.. .UNLESS I BECOME DEATHLY ILL, I’m on-track for Intensely working out for the next 30 Days… Besides my business dealings, my wonderful family.. It’s the only think I think of!! Hopefully you are doing the same…

“Bottom line, if not NOW the WHEN? If Not Me… Then WHO??? I wish I could hire someone to workout for me while I watch and eat cheesy poofs… But that is probably the only dream I’m not going to achieve for sure…. ! “ But.. I digress…

So Here is my routine so far….

Wakeup: 6:00am

Workout: 6:00am TO 7:15 Sometimes 7:30 - Workout like a freaken Madman… Today I was lifting weights to (Failure) if you don’t know what that means. It’s when you lift till you can’t lift anymore… And Then in-between sets I’m doing 35-40 seconds on my X-trainer… You guessed it… I’m an idiot! lol

After workout: Complain diligently on how tired and worn out I am (even though, I feel good)
After complaining: I pull out my trusty rice cooker and proceed to make the day’s rice- 3 Servings.

Then I went to the freezer pulled out 2 chicken breasts(6oz) and put them in a ziploc bag and marinated them with 1tbs spoon of garlic, 2tbs of lemon juice and 2 tbs of Dijon Horseradish mustard) Put them in the fridge and let them thaw out and marinate until it was time to put them on my bbq!)

Side Note on Food: Besides coming up with about 25 different ways to make chicken breast, and rice…I bought myself a case of San-Pelegrino, (while my wife and kids are drinking COKE yes right in front of me…But as George Bush Says - We are steadfast and resolute! In our goal!) I drink pelegrino!! It’s awesome in tricking my brain!

As all this is going on I spray my frying pan with PAM, and begin to make my breakfast.
Breakfast: 12 egg whites 1 cup of granola cereal and 1/2 a pink grapefruit.

Gobble that down then after my (Morning Maintenance Routine) off to work!
Then every three hours a 40 Gram protein shake!

Well that’s about it, still going strong.. If you’re doing the same Keep up the good work!
I believe in you while maybe others don’t!

Love ya
Stephan

Stephan @ 5:21 pm
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Day 1: The Battle Of Looking Better In My Clothes

Posted on Saturday 1 September 2007

Welp, here’s the deal: I have 3 major events happening in my life in the next month. I decided to seize this opportunity and leverage those events to focus ALL(Well Most) of my effort on working-out every day for the next 35 days. (Notice I’m not setting a weight goal?)

Am I healthy? Sure I am I probably eat the best out of everyone that I know, but my problem is LACK OF INTENSITY of exercise. You got it right not exercise because I do that regularly, Running, walking, X-trainer, etc. What I noticed that what used to make me thinner now is keeping me the same shape.

Now I don’t measure weight. (I don’t care) I notice belt size and a general feeling of like or disgust in myself when I look in the mirror. Also, try on some new clothes my wife bought me.(I don’t buy myself clothes, I’m not allowed my wife says I’m color-blind. oh well)

So sometimes I don’t like what I see in the mirror, so I work-out just a little harder that week. Then when I feel good about myself again.. I go back to my regular routine… Dumb. I Know..

Well I got good reasons though, like I know some of you do. Here are my good reasons:

I have this amazing launch that I’m looking forward to ,and I’ve been busy setting that up. I’ve to busy taking my wife and kids out to mini-vacations,
It’s too hot to workout.
Maybe I should wait to workout more intensely in the winter,
Might be a good idea to wait until I find a friend to workout with me,

I also saw this great new machine on T.V. that I should wait for.. Then , Then I’ll really get started… Um… Sound familiar?

CRAPPY EXCUSE CREATION MACHINE
Excuse after, after excuse, after excuse, My brain is the ultimate C.E.C.M. What is C.E.M.M.
CRAPPY EXCUSE CREATION MACHINE. So yes the guy that teaches people how to eliminate mental garbage also has mental garbage… Duh who figured.

As you can see, I’m human too. I’m aware of what I have to do so here we go. Starting Monday…. (Why Do we always wait for Monday?)

Scratch that…. (Actually I started today).. Today i had one of the most grueling workout experiences I’ve had in months.

Make me run 10 miles but give me another warrior or reverse warrior, and I’ll kill myself.

Why does yoga kick my butt every time? I’d hazard to guess that I’m twisting and turning muscles that haven’t been used before. So in 15 minutes of YOGA, I was drenched and sweat and barely could catch my breath, let alone I felt like puking all over my new New Balance shoes. Oh well… So. The routine:

15 Minutes of Intense YOGA
- Sun salutations, Downward Facing Dog, Warrior 1, Warrior 2, Runners pose, and all of the other freaking funny between stuff that was going on.

Result: I almost died.. But anyway moving along
Thoughts: How can any person alive, twist their freaking body into these poses? Damn… Wow, I didn’t know I had a muscle where my butt-cheek meets my leg…
Other thoughts: OUCH!!!!!

15 Minutes of Kenpo-Karate - Upper cuts, jabs, side kicks, ball kicks, knuckle punches, 3 part kicks, hook punches.

Result: Not bad, Tiring, but made me feel Manley knowing I’m doing movements that we designed to hurt people. Maybe the caveman part of me… Grunt…
Thoughts: Take that, and that, and that

15 Minutes of Core-Synergystics/Plyometrics - Tire jumps, Jump shots, Flying something or others… Jumping doo-dads..

Result:: lots of breathing reminded me of Gym class back in high school.
Thoughts: Um, I remember Sarah parker, oh, she was cute… I remember when her and I… Um… Ooops

The workout was really intense but felt good, although it almost killed me on some parts. What I have to keep telling myself is that the intensity of the workout is determined by me and not by the instructor, the videotape, or anything else. I found that as long as I did most of the exercises at 7 % intensity level that I could actually do the entire process… Easily? NO! but at least I could get through the damn thing!!!

Anyway Planned meal/Supplements today:
6 Multivatimins and minerals
1 B-Complex
6 Hydroxy-Cut (The Legal Kind)

Morning Meal: 1 coffee
12 egg whites
cup of porridge
2 glasses of water
A grapefruit - Love these things..

Mid Morning : Protein Shake

Lunch: 1 6 oz chicken breast
1/2 cup of veges

Afternoon: Protein shake

Dinner: 1 6oz chicken breast
1/2 a cup of veges
A cup of Rice

Evening: Protein shake

Well that’s it 6 days a week!
Um.. What about the seventh day?
I PIG OUT!!!! Ya I’m going to eat so much food fat albert would be jealous!!!

Everyday I’ll just tell you a little about my experience, just for fun! I know some of you actually are going to follow along… Hmm…. Wouldn’t that be nice?
Pictures are on their way…

Legal Disclaimer
But consult your doctor, I don’t make any claims, brush your teeth, comb your hair blah-blah.. You know the rest

Love ya all
Stephan

Stephan @ 8:59 am
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How To Capture Your “Inspirational Thought Noise”

Posted on Monday 27 August 2007

I woke up in an amazing mood this morning and the moment my eyes opened I noticed I had this overwhelming feeling of being inspired to write something about inspiration.

I immediately jumped out of bed and RAN to my computer to begin writing this post because I didn’t want that feeling to subside.

In my years of working with clients, I’ve identified two patterns of thought people called inspiration:

  1. Inspired and Focused
  2. Inspired and Unfocused

Inspired and focused

Ever had one of those days that whatever you touched turned to gold? Everything is flowing and going your way, nothing you face seems like a big deal because compared with how focused and on task you feel nothing seems like a chore. Everything in your mind is lines up, you know exactly what to do and how to do it. You are in control and feel empowered because today is a good day!You are inspired and focused - (In spirit) the spirit of focused inspiration. If don’t have enough of those days, maybe you should read the (Inspired Focus) article.

Today however I’d like to talk about another type of inspiration.

Inspired and Unfocused
That’s when you have so many great thoughts and ideas that you don’t know where to begin, where to end, which end is up which end is down. Those are the days that you have so much (Inspirational Noise) in your mind you don’t know if you feel good or feel bad. Thoughts Like:

  1. You have a great idea for a book.
  2. You feel like writing in your journal
  3. You’re million dollar invention of the wearable TV.
  4. Your feeling that today is a great day to start your workouts.
  5. Your finally feeling like it’s time clean that room that looks like a bomb went off in it.
  6. Your desk looks unbelievably messy today, and it’s driving you nuts so you want to clean it.
  7. You want to spend time with your significant other, but if you do you might miss completing your ideas….

Or just maybe you feel like writing and 20 different topics come up that all are great, and you don’t know which one to start with…..

Inspirational Thought Noise
The average human being has 6384 thoughts in any one day. If there is no pattern, or consistency to what you are thinking, that means if out of the 6384 thoughts the majority are unique. Some people might even call this ADD. I don’t believe in ADD, give me anyone with ADD, and I’ll show you an extremely intelligent person that just doesn’t know how to control the “Flow of his/her inspirational thought noise”.

If you think you have ADD, or if you just feel out of control one day, try the following exercise.

If you allow your mind to run wild without taming the beast, you’ll quickly burn yourself out and end up feeling depressed and your brain needs an outlet for the inspirational noise….

It’s almost a mental paradox you feel good but overwhelmed at the same time. You have this feeling in your solo plexus that says to you that you are feeling urgent, these ideas are soooo great you must do something with them or they will be lost forever.

Here are the steps I had to go through today to get back control of my inspired state of mind.

Step 1: Capture the thoughts until you empty your brain.
Imagine that every thought is a beautiful butterfly that you want to catch with your net.
My first step is to get everything out of my brain without editing - No logical order, just get it the heck out my brain. If a butterfly popped up, Id pull out my trusty net (computer notepad) and capture it.

I jumped on my computer and just started writing all the wayward thoughts and ideas that where coming hard-and-fast to me. Here is an example of the torrent of thoughts:

Example of (Inspired and Unfocused)

“Today’s inspired mood is “Inspired and unfocused”. So what does that mean?
I have so many thoughts Business, personal, financial, health, coming at me from that I feel that my hands can’t type as fast as I can think.

This is amazing and frustrating at the same time. It’s almost as if I’m watching TV in the recesses of my brain and switching from channel to channel and each station has an amazing movie that I want to talk about, share, think about and fully involve myself in.

So which one do I choose? The answer is NOT ONE. When you are inspired and focused you must capture all your thoughts. So if your computer savvy, open notepad and start writing, DON’T STOP just write and write and write and here I am writing, writing and writing.

As the ideas come to just write them down and keep doing it until you are empty. That means you’ve exhausted recording all your thoughts. This blog post was not written in any logical format. As a matter of fact, since I was inspired and unfocused sitting down and writing this article took 10 X longer than it normally would take me to write an article.

As I write, wayward thoughts enter my active mind, thoughts that have nothing to do with what I’m currently writing about pop in and interrupt my flow… So I just accept it, and starting expressing everything I thought in one long paragraph.

Only when I was done recording all my thoughts and feelings did I stop, organize, and edit. It doesn’t matter that there is no coherent flow of ideas, what matters is that I record everything as quickly as I can. Then edit it after when I’m empty.

In the past twenty minutes I’ve come up twenty new concepts, fourteen new article topics, and two new ways of organizing information. Does that mean I’m ADD? Maybe… Or perhaps my DTE(Dominant Thought Experience) of the past three weeks is finally incubated, and it’s time to express.

What you’ll find, is that when you finish, the mind begins to slow down, your thoughts become more focused and directed, you become more relaxed and then the flow of information becomes more methodical.

I know for a fact that 3/4 of the information that I typed out today will not make it past the editor, but it doesn’t matter, what matters is to capture the state. After your mind begins to clear because you captured everything, you will probably end with an inspirational expression that has nothing to do with what you first intended. That’s ok… Because in the editing process you will have captured your initial expression and maybe express it in some other way another day. Just make sure you record it.

When I get into theses moods I could sit here and write a book, regardless of the topic. So the first step is to “RECORD EVERYTHING” and time it, because you might have to take a break especially if you are in Inspired and Unfocused mode!”"

Step 2: Organize the information
My second step was to “ORGANIZE THE INFORMATION” by getting clear about what my purpose is.

  1. Is it to teach a new skill?
  2. Is it to inspire?
  3. Is it to create more business?
  4. Is it to create synergy between you and another human being?

What’s the purpose? In this case is to teach you how to capture and inspirational state of mind. After I captured all my thoughts on paper that’s what it turned out to be. When I started, I wanted to talk about how to deconstruct and state of mind to be able to re-create it. Right now this post is about making use of your inspirational moments.

Step 3: Fulfill the purpose you chose in step 2

Now I got a bunch of stuff on paper or on my computer.
Now it’s time to fulfill my purpose that I CHOSE in step 2. So based on my desired purpose in step 2, it’s time to:

  1. Answer the question
  2. Provide the solution
  3. Teach the skill
  4. Fulfill your purpose

(THAT STILL DOESN”T MEAN EDIT) Organize the information by asking yourself;
Go through the entire expression process and decide on what information is:

  1. Frivolous: Then delete it.
  2. A Good idea but doesn’t fulfill my purpose:
  3. A Good idea relates to my purpose but is too verbose:
  4. Information that I want to keep that gets to the point of the purpose in step 2:

When you marry your purpose with clear and concise information you are done!

My purpose of this post is twofold:

1: How to slow down your brain when you’re in over -inspiration mode.
2: How to use the over inspiration mode to your advantage

Now I’m off to write the 14 other articles that my brain expressed for me today…
Talk to you tomorrow if you will decide you want to come back…

Thanks for reading
Stephan

Stephan @ 11:24 am
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